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The top 9 kind of guys we shouldn't date;
because, "Do you find yourself constantly being let down by the men you date and bouncing between being single and in a relationship as often as Jessica Simpson? The problem isn't you; it's the men you're dating."

1) Mr Tin Heart - the emotionally unavailable man
“These women really believe that they can change a man's mind about being with them, or they simply make themselves believe they can, because they feel like they have no other choice,” explains Sally Reeves* a relationship counselor.

2) #1 Playa
"He's the perfect lover, makes you feel like you're the queen of his world and that he's perched you high above a pedestal away from any other woman in his sight. He's well-dressed, charming, witty, funny, and his manners are impeccable. He's out to make an impact on the women he makes, and he'll definitely make that impact on you...and every other woman that tickles his fancy."

3) Mr Mummy - ultimate mummy's boy
"He's always going to choose is mum (or aunt or sister) over you. And while there may be times he's hesitant about making that decision, make no mistake, the end outcome will always be the same: Mum 1 - You 0.

What's worse, when things don't work out, he'll believe that the issues lay with you not trying hard enough to get along with his family."

4) Tan Sri Lambat - (a.k.a. Sir Late-A-Lot)
“Every time you break a time promise there is a consequence and you are sending a subtle message to the person you stood up that they are less important than you or whatever you were doing” Karen Kawalec*, a behavioral specialist and counsellor from the UK. "Do this enough, and you’ll strain the relationship you have with this person for the long term. It also says that you aren’t responsible, reliable, or maybe even sincere and honest.”

5) Mr Office-Is-My-Home
"On the plus side, the workaholic is always well-dressed with impeccable manners and an admirable knowledge of many things. He knows how to make you feel like a real lady. On the other hand, dinner dates (if they hadn't already been cancelled) will usually turn into a solo affair, with you picking at the food while he screams down the phone about some deal or the other."

6) Mr Whiny
"This guy's self-esteem has fallen so low, it's almost made friends with the Hobbits of middle Earth. But, he doesn't think it's his fault; it's always someone else's."

"His constant belief that he is the victim means he's always seeking attention and becomes distressed when he feels he isn't getting what he needs. While some women's overpowering maternal instinct draws them to men like this, eventually, they will get tiring."

7) Mr Quick Trick - this lying leech has an excuse for e.v.e.r.y.t.h.i.n.g
"You knew there was something not quite right about his explanation but he backed it up with something solid, so you let him get away with it. But, the more he gets away with, the bigger his lies get."

8) The Ex Texter

“When you continue an emotional relationship with someone instead of letting go, you will usually have subconscious feelings for them or realise that the feelings never went away, which can be damaging to new or potential relationships,” Sally* says. “But, you get a rush from doing it and from hearing back, and it's naughty, yet safe in its own right."

9) The Game Boy
"Nothing wrong with a man and his game console...unless he chooses it over you."

"In a way, gaming to men is what shopping is to women - therapy. But, that doesn't mean we shop all the time. The absolute danger sign ladies, is when he calls in sick at work because (a) he didn't sleep the night before battling zombies or (b) he needs the day to advance to the next level. When that happens, either 'accidentally' trip and spill a mug of hot tea over the console, or, if you fear that may endanger your life lest he rage at you, just leave his keys by the door and leave. You'll be better of for doing it."

damn frigging true eh? :D
so like, other than that chuck of text, i've got a video to share too! :D

THE SPARE~`WONG FU PRODUCTIONS..(get it from youtube)

i don't know what hit me, but what the guy did really got to me.
hahahaha, watch it and you'll probably understand what i meant. [:
alright, i've got some decisions to make.
so am not sure if i'm going out with my parents outta town.
hahahaha, not sure if it's a good or bad thing.
because one thing for sure, my tummy's on riot with me because i didn't feed it.
that's cause mom's not here. ]:
but on the contrary, i've got a bit more freedom.
hahahaha, god i hate ironies!